I thank God for a year of life lessons. For the first time in my life I experienced what many refer to as, "girl problems." I never let things get to me but was stripped of being myself for nearly three months. I would rank this period as the worst time in my life. I never thought I was going to snap out of it. I cared a lot for the girl but having her in my life was making me insane! It was so bad that I actually prayed to God to end our relationship. We eventually severed ties and I bounced back. Life has never been so great.After realizing my life wasn't perfect, I ventured out of my bubble and had a better sense of compassion for troubles that plagued other's lives. For the first time in my life, I could relate. I matured more this year than in any other year in my life. Socially, I didn’t feel the need or want to party every weekend. Professionally, I began to interact more with my colleagues and have taken broader steps to grow in my career. Spiritually, I returned to Sunday church services for the first time since high school.
Since graduating college I’ve been trying to find myself. I was a student athlete for 17.5 years. During this time, I was ambitious about where my education would lead me and passionate about each sport I competed in. Since my college football career has ended and I've graduated, I have found it difficult to find a passion that drives me in my career. I’m blessed that I work for a company where I am able to express this and have colleagues who support me. This year, I have built a network of executive level professionals and have received thoughtful advice, in search of a career path that best suits me.
I usually travel alone. For one, it's too difficult to coordinate schedules with others and I really enjoy the company of myself. I always enjoy meeting new people and connecting with friends when I travel. One memorable encounter was during a trip to Los Angeles. I had just parked my car in Beverly Hills and was walking towards Rodeo Drive and randomly ran into a high school friend. She happened to be there on spring break from med school in Chicago. It was a random encounter but it’s always good to see a familiar face when I’m away from home. Other notable ’09 travel experiences: Exploring NYC, walking past Stevie Wonder (on Rodeo Drive as well), first day at the spa (SLS Ciel Spa) and celebrating my birthday at the Playboy Mansion.
Having a finance and economics background, I found it very interesting to follow our economic recession. I watched more business/financial news this year than I had since college. I enjoyed following our country’s first African-American President and government's plans to stimulate the economy. I was fortunate to not have been adversely impacted by the recession. I love to shop and I can’t tell you how many great deals I found this year on merchandise. It was Christmas all year for me!
I lived both "the dream" and a movie this year. Each year tends to improve for me so I am optimistic about another great year in 2010. I wish my readers the same. I plan to lay low the remainder of the year. I do not like to celebrate New Year's eve so I will probably play video games and enjoy time at home with my family. Happy Holidays to everyone. Feel free to comment about your own experiences this year or any New Year resolutions.
